Learn to forget
grace | Study and life | 17 November 2009, 9:07am
While living in the world, it is can following laugh heartily with a happy one too sometimes to be worried and worried. Following success just as failing, if is cranky all day in a person's brain, remember storing the thing without value in the head too, then he or she always feels that has an uncertain future, less than satisfactory that there are many in life. So, it is cleared up in time the thing stored in the head that it is very necessary for us, come under keeping the ones that should keep, abandon the ones that kept. Those bring unfavorable factor of all respects to somebody, really it is unnecessary to pass in several years but still worth aftertasting or taking to heart. In this way, people could live happily a bit freer and easier.
If as everyone knows, in the society, big family, you want to gain others' respect, you must respect others at first, the advantage remembered more, and learn to forget others' fault. Secondly, one should learn to forget one's own achievement, some people are getting proud after doing a little achievement, complacent, this is causing a reason to fail. The achievement only goes over, it could cross over the new realm in life like that to want everything to start from scratch. Meanwhile, one's one's own help for others, should regard as an insignificant minor matter, forget. In this way, your way to handle affairs can obtain others' praise.
Need to review in life, need to summarize the lesson constantly, develop the advantage, overcome the shortcoming. Learn to forget, filter the impurity going on one's own thought with reason, keep sincere emotion, it will teach you how to cultivate one's taste. Only good at forgetting, could keep the brightest memory in life better.
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