Seeing a Man Cry...
baap | 16 August 2004, 11:51pmI treasure those talks on a particulary cold night with a friend. The talks which last for hours and hours over fags and fags (excuse the use of nicotine...to all those already disgusted non-smokers....but a fag is an integral part of such conversations....although we all know it screws us up....i request these nicotine deprived people to leave it apart for now). Anyway, these conversations are sometimes so amazing that I try to keep souveniers or memorabilia just so that i can remember my...OUR.... thought processes at that particular instant of time! I already have a "Pledge Fag" which i have kept for about 4 days now..unscathed. Conversations like these usually range on subjects like Current Affairs, the Mysteries of Science, Religion, SEX!!!!, Human Psyche...etc. Those are all ok, but there are these rare times when the conversation becomes personal to either person.
Just about 30 minutes back, such a rare conversation occured which made a man cry. I refrain from revealing details of the conversation or who this man is, but crying while having an intense conversation is a testament to the trust you have for the other person, and most of these tear-jerker convos usually deal with the "other" person's life which you cannot relate to in anyway possible. But the one convo i just had struck all 6 chords in me...(assuming that i have full musical personality n all...Wateva!), this one made me also cry man...and i dont generally moisten up when someone else is crying...i take on the role of ConsolerMan!!!! (Its a tear, its a heavy voice...NO! its CONSOLER MAN!)...armed with dialogues such as "Its Ok man...Shit Happens"....but this time ConsolerMan faced the friggin Kryptonian of all potential tear jerking Convos.
Here we have two guys sitting in the middle of a Cafe (Cayf)...with my specks moist and his eyes wet.!!! Bloody Stupid scenario...DAMN! JEEZ....Anyway seeing a man cry brings out chivalry of the purest kind. Woman have the unexplaianble source of superhuman abilities while saving their offspring from danger...well MEN have this! And this form of expression isnt of any lower form. A man crying to another man is probably the ultimate bond of trust ever...which no friggin aquaintance" may ever achieve even if they pull off some cliff-hanger type stunt to save ur life or wateva (thats the priority i give to trust....Cliffhanger points!...it works like this..Trust according to me is measured based on when that same trust maybe used in the following situation(hopefully hypothetical!): If a person choses to save you life over someone else important to him/her....that person gets maximum cliffhanger points....VAGUE u say? Well i tried my best to explain it...!)
And a message to those people who get all awkward and embarassed" when they are faced by such situations.....ZERO Cliffhanger points to you!!!!!!!..NA NA NAA NAA NA NA
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Current Mood: Preachy
Current Music: Tears for Fears - Head over heels
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1. By drp | 17 Aug 2004, 12:51am
dude!!
congratulations on the Bloghack!!
:p
wats it called...?
Blacking?:-S
2. By Mayavi | 18 Aug 2004, 9:58am
Hacked or just a missing link?
I had to type in the URL to open this page.