When we disagree on something, it can easily turn into an argument. When you begin arguing, it means you could be misunderstanding the other person.
Arguments happen when each person is trying to put his point across and wants the other person to listen to him. It is only when people share thoughts and listen to each other, that a discussion takes place.
Silence during an argument can most easily be misinterpreted.
Simple misunderstandings could be the root of all frustrations.
Arguments can get worse depending on the tone of voice used. Because in arguments, sometimes, it is not what you say but how you say it that paves the way for further damage.
Arguments take place when we do not take the ownership of a problem, in a way blame the other person for the problem
Getting into details in an argument could mean a diversion from the actual problem.
Arguments happen when we do not agree with what's on the other person's mind.
Arguments should not be about who is right or wrong but should be about how it is ended.
Arguments are nothing about the topic most of the times, they move on to personal preferences and underlying emotional needs that have not been taken care of.
Once we start arguing, we start blaming, complaining, accusing, finding fault and resenting.
When arguments get out of hand, we tend to vent out our frustrations and this damages the relationship further.
Sometimes arguing can ease the tension between you and your partner. Especially, when you are sure that your partner will not hold things against you or will not love you less for the way you feel.
Do not negotiate during an argument, but find a later peaceful time to do so.
Agree to disagree on some things.
If approached properly, arguments can actually clear the air and help in a better relationship.
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