S2S connection...
T-Dude | 18 April 2005, 5:07pmI have always been surprised by the way I have changed by the years...sometimes its for the gud n sometimes for the worse...if its for the worse, the question is y not change my attitude when I actually know its wrong...this blog is abt one of those difficult-to-change attitudes..
In our childhood, I dont think anyone has thought how beautiful the ppl around us r...we always looked into their character...it was more of a soul to soul connection...never bothered abt how one looks..never had prejudices regardin their characters in the first sight...and not even bothered abt looking oneself in the mirror to c how one looks...
May be its in our adolescence that we started admiring beauty...(I being a male,) getting attracted to females...then starting to have that first impression marked with the first sight...this kinda attraction is natural..is nature responsible for us getting into such attitude??
Updated**(from what I cud make out from the comment)
Even though we have the first impression that might unconsciously be from the past experiences n it need not only be due to ones beauty...the way ppl carry..the way they c things..everything reveals their character....and may be this is what is called intuition.
Also, putting aside first impression...after a few days of knowing a person we tend to connect to his/her soul. this shd explain.....but what abt those we had a bad first impression and relying on that never even bothered to know them??
PS: any justifications..do comment..thanx
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1. By Jaan | 19 Apr 2005, 1:34am
*woh tum na thi, to kaun tha?* koodi ka naam kya hain? j/k
on topic: i vote for liking someone for their looks. i believe that people get a new perspective and learn something from that situation if the person turns out to be an airhead with an ugly personality. nature has nothing to do with attitude. nuture wins over nature hands down. and sometimes, its just a phase.
2. By TDude | 20 Apr 2005, 6:14pm
thanx for the comments..hope the updated thing contains what u meant..
btw..ladki hain khoobsurat, par hain anjaani..
kaash koi kudi hothi