An IM etiquette!
Stand-Alone Dreamer | 5 November 2005, 10:03pmIntroduction: You've seen the phenomenon. During the weekends & public holidays at least 75% of your buddy list is online. Then the weekday or summer hits and your buddy list is hit by an apparent bubonic plague. Because IM is so popular among us, it is befitting that we should set forth a list of rules, nay commandments, to abide by. So here, in no particular order, is the prevailing IM Dogma.
- In your Yahoo / MSN profile, there's no need to throw in loads of advertising space about your girlfriend/boyfriend/horse. Granted, I may be a jaded, single fool, but when your profile looks like this:
Baby, I love you. I love you. Oh baby I love you and miss you. See you soon. I love you. Baby, baby.
[Insert rows of nonsensical IM kissy-faces]
It's just annoying and disturbing. A subtle message is fine, but if you use either MUAH or those god-awful IM faces (more on those in a sec), then Yahoo / MSN should spike you and you should not be allowed to create a profile in any of the Messengers for three years!!
- Please stop using LOL. Only about 0.04% of people actually "Laugh out Loud" and they are retarded. And don't give me this ROTFLMAO (Rolling on the floor laughing my ass off). I'd actually like to see you try this just so you can snap your neck as you fall out of your chair. Good. Nothing to LOL about now, is there?
- Don't IM just to say "HI." Talking on Yahoo is the fast food equivalent of actual conversations. Keep the messages short and sweet. I assure you, you are not that interesting of a person. And if you were, why am I talking to you behind a keyboard and miles of bandwidth?
- You don't have to IM someone every time they are online. Nobody is that interesting. The average person spends more time wiping their ass than talking to their parents. No one can be conversational every time you IM them.
- Stop with these oblique away messages like "Not here", "Away", "Gone", or using an Yahoo emoticon. If you had to shit, fine. Tell us, we're concerned for your well being. And for the love of god don't use the default away message: "I am away from my computer right now." Don't you get disappointed when you see that?
- If you are talking on a cell phone with someone and IMing that person simultaneously, you deserve the impending radiation cancer.
- Don't ever send more than 5 messages in a row to someone. All that beeping could give someone a brain hemorrhage. It sounds like a damn Star Wars movie on my computer!
- Stop using Yahoo / MSN faces (emoticons). This is the lowest point of human interaction. It is more evolved to go to your friend's house and throw your own shit at their face.
- If someone sends you a link or a song to download, you are not obligated to ever visit that link or download that song. Making a suggestion is fine, but don't pester them about it for days to come. You are interrupting their porn time.
- Blocking someone is about the cruelest thing you can do to them. Worse than murder. So if someone pisses you off, don't block them. Ignore them. Fill them with doubt as to whether you are still at your computer. Blocking is savagely cruel, use only when necessary.
- One "Bye" is all that is needed to end a convo. Too many convos drag on and on like the first hour of Pearl Harbor. They look a little like this:
Asshole69: Ok man, later.
Buttfuk27: Yea, take it east.
Buttfuk27: easy*
Asshole69: Yeah I will
Asshole69: Later
Buttfuk27: Later, dude
Asshole69: Goodnite
Buttfuk27: Oh hey
Asshole69: Yeah?
Buttfuk27: Did you finish your dinner?
Asshole69: Yeah
Buttfuk27: Oh okay, cool
Asshole69: ok, seeya later
Buttfuk27: Yep, bye
Asshole69: Bye
Buttfuk27: Night
Previous message was not received by Asshole69 because of error: User Asshole69 really left this time.
- Don't try to describe your looks in your screen name. If your screen name is SexyGurl25, and you look like Whoopie (no insult!!), that's false advertising. Besides, it really isn't nice to trick MegaStud21, who is actually a 40-year-old unemployed bald man who installed a webcam in your shower while you were at office.
- Girls, it is not necessary to make your profiles look like the lost works of Emily Dickinson. A couple of clever lines is fine, but honestly, no one's turning to your profile as their daily source of sonnets.
- Don't just type "yea" to your friend when you have nothing to say. I understand the flashing IM is intimidating, and a lot of people need to have the last word, but the "yea" is basically IM code for: "I have lost a lot of interest in this convo, and was kind of hoping we could just drift apart peacefully."
- No more than two numbers in your screen name. Three is okay, but only if it's to signal your birthday. It's already hard to remember what you decided to call yourself online, we really don't need the first 100 digits after the decimal point of PI. If your profile id is: Queef67483857, just shorten it to Queef67. Or just Queef. I can't imagine too many people picking that one, it's too honest.
- Don't type "BRB" then drive off to Afghanistan. BRB has a 10 minute window. After that, it's away message time. Yahoo should install a feature that will automatically send gay porn to all your friends under your name once your comp is idle for 11 minutes after a BRB.
- You can tell the mood a person is in by how much they type. Example:
PeeWee12: Hey, man.
Meat10: Yo, what's up, dude?
= Happy
PeeWee12: Hey, man
Meat10: Hey
= Melancholy
PeeWee12: Hey, man
Meat10: Go f**k yourself.
= Not happy.
- Don't put quizzes in your profile. What is the goal, exactly? To figure out who is your most prolific stalker?
- If someone sends you one of those IM's that say you must IM 10 other people, in order to save a child dying of leukemia in Indonesia, drive to his house and beat him to death with his own keyboard. Then, take a deep breath, and go check your email.
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1. By rags | 5 Nov 2005, 11:08pm
Hey,
Long time.. but def worth the wait.
Where do you get such amazing stuff out from; time and again?
2. By Portuguese Man-Of-War | 6 Nov 2005, 10:39am
Hilarious! This blog is always worth the time!!!
3. By worldlycitizen | 6 Nov 2005, 12:57pm
First time visitor to this blog.. Read all your posts till date, at a stretch (guess u'd have realized that i've nothing else to do)
Truly wonderful; this blog rocks. The best one i've come across in a long long time. You've a unique way with words!
4. By worldlycitizen | 6 Nov 2005, 12:57pm
First time visitor to this blog.. Read all your posts till date, at a stretch (guess u'd have realized that i've nothing else to do)
Truly wonderful; this blog rocks. The best one i've come across in a long long time. You've a unique way with words!
5. By more_:-* | 7 Nov 2005, 3:32pm
hmm....MUAAAAAAAAH!! :-******. baby baby!!
6. By twigrl | 8 Nov 2005, 7:37am
Good job! i guess people need that badly. oh the goodbye drag! gosh its how polite can you be...when you are drooling on your keyboard..yuck! but still is blocking is good escape...girls i highly recommend you use that.
7. By Stand-Alone Dreamer | 8 Nov 2005, 4:56pm
Hey.. Thanks guys!
Guess there shd be something nice abt the way I scribble! if only i'd known it I wud have put it to gud use :)
twigirl: I just don't understand the blocking advise! Is anyone worth a block!? If ya hate someone so badly ain't the kick more in keeping them guessing whether you've blocked them or not!
And why in the name of mother mary should it be an advise for GIRLS!?! Why shouldn't guys block as an SOS!? Plz elucidate!
more_: more :-* :-* muaaahhhaaahh baby, baby, I love you, baby i love you, muaaahhhhh :-* :-*
8. By Twigrl | 9 Nov 2005, 10:27pm
Yes, some people are worth blocking..no its one kick ends all deal...nothing to worry aboutlater.
9. By Eliz | 11 Nov 2005, 8:26pm
I havent smiled so much in the last 1 month as i have , reading your blog.Wish i hadnt spend so much time being bored and found the site earlier.
10. By Stand-Alone Dreamer | 13 Nov 2005, 1:25pm
Its an honour to have made you smile in here!
Guess I shd start marketing my blog more! :)
11. By Lord Arthas | 20 Nov 2005, 6:16am
That was awesome dude. You are the best blogger here. It’s a pain waiting for your posts (u take a lot of time between posts!!!) but if the masterpiece is gonna be like this…it’s definitely worth the wait.
Waiting desperately for the next one!!
12. By salvagepoint | 24 Nov 2005, 3:12pm
It's quite a treat reading your page... from one writer to another... :)
13. By salvagepoint | 24 Nov 2005, 3:19pm
Oops...I had typed 'deep bow' and it didnt show up in my last comment...So here goes a 'deep bow' to your blog...
14. By Stand-Alone Dreamer | 28 Nov 2005, 8:04pm
Hey, thanks guys...
Makes me feel nice, esp. in days of deep turmoil like this! :)
15. By Stand-Alone Dreamer | 16 Mar 2007, 4:45pm
seems like someone read my blog.. :)
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16. Hilarious is the word for you...
By Guddu | 17 Oct 2008, 12:20pm
If someone sends you one of those IM's that say you must IM 10 other people, in order to save a child dying of leukemia in Indonesia, drive to his house and beat him to death with his own keyboard. Then, take a deep breath, and go check your email.
best one!!!... Your blogs RoCk!!!
17. To Guddu
By Stand Alone Dreamer | 17 Oct 2008, 4:42pm
Taking a deep bow!!
It's with these "donations" that this blog still living!!
18. Re: An IM etiquette!
By cutie pie.... | 25 Sep 2010, 5:09pm
u knw wat i hav to say.... Abi :)