13 Aug 2004
Living but dead?
Have you ever received an sms from a friend late in the night that says, 'when someone tells you - life is beautiful, they are lying! Coz it ain't!'
Has a friend ever told you she wants to die and so badly that she wishes it were now!
Has a buddy called you for almost like 20 times in the past 2 hrs and she has nothing to say except for
Current Mood: Thoughtful
Current Music: ill be there for you... i will be
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By rainmaker
13 Aug 2004, 1:57pm [ Reply ]
yeah i've heard a friend say something of that sort abt life.. and i was there for him. it wouldn't have gone the suicide way, though.
By dawn
13 Aug 2004, 5:21pm [ Reply ]
i shud say..ur friend is fortunate ... coz its not so effortless and facile as it sounds to 'be there'..
u know there are times when u think, 'why can't she/he be normal for once and think straight?'
it doesn't dawn on that if he/she were right-minded there wudnt be so much of negativism!!
By A depressive
13 Aug 2004, 7:21pm [ Reply ]
I completely relate to what has been written as the victim, the depressive.
It is not the aboriginal problem thats depressing, sometimes the fact that you have nobody to talk to is even more depressing!
By me
13 Aug 2004, 7:47pm [ Reply ]
'Holy mess''a crunch''a hitch''a problem' now who doesnt have that?
It is how we respond to it, how we bounce back.
Hey depressive, i too have been there before and when i was depressed and retaliated, people called me a schizophrenic :(
By dawn
13 Aug 2004, 8:08pm [ Reply ]
I jus spoke to a couple of friends of mine and they didnt like the concept of 'we can do very little' and suggested therapies that would help...well as much as i appreciate their input, i was rather talking about being a friend for 'the moment'...
Depressive and me, most of us have been there at one point or the other, it is best to be thankful for the friends we have and sometimes take pride in surviving the odds...
By rainmaker
13 Aug 2004, 9:06pm [ Reply ]
you're right. depression can become dangerous due to Loneliness.
By No Namer
13 Aug 2004, 9:47pm [ Reply ]
Really hope I had somebody like you: Dawn n Rainmaker.
Life is a roller coaster ride of emotions, which sometimes get a lil too rough for a person to handle. Its at such times that u needs friends, who, as Dawn says, will just listen to u cry.
By d'wn
14 Aug 2004, 2:33pm [ Reply ]
hey...wassup No Namer? things okay wid ya?
By peacemaker
14 Aug 2004, 6:30pm [ Reply ]
saying axioms are primordial and this has become a caprice among teens. One should question themselves whether they belong to the saying ones or the doing ones?????
as i have been thru it i jus wann say one thing.....Instead of blaming others it's better one don't get into such situation .......life is small and beautiful, let us not allow such maladies and bugs (like depression)to enter our Intriguing life........
By wma
15 Aug 2004, 8:25am [ Reply ]
talk about depressives, depression and their mood swings!
i know someone that went all the way, the suicide way and i was there all along helplessly looking.
By wma
15 Aug 2004, 1:20pm [ Reply ]
:(
By rainmaker
16 Aug 2004, 12:38pm [ Reply ]
wma.. its alright.. how would you have known (back then) that he/she would commit Suicide?
By dawn
16 Aug 2004, 6:14pm [ Reply ]
yeah rainmaker is rite wma...u didnt know back then that it wud go the suicide way, n besides u simply cannot take the blame!
u cannot change things now, but u can certainly deal with them... u were there for ur friend in need, u did what was required of u, the rest was not in ur hands....
By wma
16 Aug 2004, 10:02pm [ Reply ]
i know, but i still miss my friend and wish i could have done something.
does anybody here any counselors? any shrinks?
By wma
16 Aug 2004, 10:03pm [ Reply ]
know any........
By rainmaker
17 Aug 2004, 12:11am [ Reply ]
wma:: when people go away suddenly without giving us a fair chance to tell them what we think of - or feel for - them.. its Destiny, not your fault.
what do u need counselling for? you're perfectly alright.. just rid yourself of that guilt. you were Not responsible for what happened!
By shastah mcnasta
17 Aug 2004, 7:54am [ Reply ]
no offence, but how old are you??
do u have any happy friends, any that are not "on the edge", any that dont need help?? do u? everyone should have some.
By DUNhill
17 Aug 2004, 8:04am [ Reply ]
goli maray bhejay mein..........now that wasnt so bad was it?? :|
By wma
17 Aug 2004, 9:57am [ Reply ]
thanku guys, yes i do have friends, happy ones and i am not a kid i assure you, i have jus been feeling low.
thanku guys, with your advices i dont think i need ny shrink rite? :)
ive been feeling a lot better today, thanku again!