30 Oct 2005, 12:43pm
When a fellow-blogger had to snap...
Posted by Script Writer | Category [ General ]Comments (42) | Trackbacks (0)
Damn a fellow blogger for shattering my illusion! Why can't some people let other people be? Here I was, all blissful in my little world, believing that nothing could ever get to me. Then she says something very innoccuously (at this moment, I don't really care if that is the right word to be used here or even if it is spelled right), something that those among us of lesser flesh and blood would simply have let pass right through them feeling as much pinch as they do when the zillions of neutrinos pass through them every day of their miserably despicable existence. Of all things that she could ever have said (sue me for using a cliche), she says that I am goodie-goodie, that I have had no 'action' worth the mention.
And she does this on messenger. Why? Because (what if a sentence should not begin with 'because'?) she knew as well as I did that saying this on a public forum would not only demean her in the eyes of the blog reading junta it would demean her in her own eyes. Those like me have have no qualms over sinking to lower lows. But those like a fellow blogger have just not evolved enough.
Not evolving enough is not such a bad thing. Cockroaches, unchanged for the last 100 million years or so, have shown that by surviving whatever it was that wiped out those mind-bogglingly big lizards that are for some reason assumed to have been cute by all those who lay great value on being politically correct. What a rat's ass! If only they knew that there are far more captivating asses, like those of the likes of Cindy Crawford and Karolina Kurkova, as a race we would not have shied away from calling a spade a spade, or in this case calling a lizard a barf-inducing specimen. Imagine waking up to a T-Rex slithering on your ceiling!
Perhaps my fellow-blogger has the stomach for folderol, in which case she can digest a lot more than what most can. That and the fact that she loves me so much that her vision is blurred and she sees me the way she wants me to be perceived. Yes, she has religiously followed the happennings on my blog for a year and a half. Somewhere down the line, she had to snap.
Current Mood: Gloomy
Current Music: Eminem - Lose Yourself
And she does this on messenger. Why? Because (what if a sentence should not begin with 'because'?) she knew as well as I did that saying this on a public forum would not only demean her in the eyes of the blog reading junta it would demean her in her own eyes. Those like me have have no qualms over sinking to lower lows. But those like a fellow blogger have just not evolved enough.
Not evolving enough is not such a bad thing. Cockroaches, unchanged for the last 100 million years or so, have shown that by surviving whatever it was that wiped out those mind-bogglingly big lizards that are for some reason assumed to have been cute by all those who lay great value on being politically correct. What a rat's ass! If only they knew that there are far more captivating asses, like those of the likes of Cindy Crawford and Karolina Kurkova, as a race we would not have shied away from calling a spade a spade, or in this case calling a lizard a barf-inducing specimen. Imagine waking up to a T-Rex slithering on your ceiling!
Perhaps my fellow-blogger has the stomach for folderol, in which case she can digest a lot more than what most can. That and the fact that she loves me so much that her vision is blurred and she sees me the way she wants me to be perceived. Yes, she has religiously followed the happennings on my blog for a year and a half. Somewhere down the line, she had to snap.
Current Mood: Gloomy
Current Music: Eminem - Lose Yourself
30 Oct 2005, 6:27pm
I believe the word was 'gentleman'. I fail to see how that can be the cause for such distress. Also, I don't remember anything about no action worth the mention.
Now, saying it on messenger is only because, you, who is a gentleman, would not want action on your blog. See?
And I snapped? And I love you?
This post of yours, it made me think, and after I have finished thinking, I think I'm going to be offended. Just you wait...
30 Oct 2005, 10:42pm
My dear fellow blogger, did you have to make that grammatical blunder when signing your name? It is hard to move on when the people you are fond of pierce a dagger in your heart like this.
And, I am supremely interested in what you thought because it is going to have a deep impact on me. I am waiting...
31 Oct 2005, 12:20am
Thought I would drop in to say hello and eh kya? Kya likh rahe ho? Aila, just melancholy stuff, hmmm...
31 Oct 2005, 12:57am
Oh my GOD! Chill guys!!! May be its just some sort of misunderstanding. How about, both of you meeting on a cup of coffee and coming to some understanding?
Mr. Writer I think you are extremely rude in your writing and pretty adorable in responding to “fellow blogger”. Come on buddy! How about listening to what she has to say? You know that it matter to both of you. YOU GUYS SHOULD MEET PERIOD!.
31 Oct 2005, 2:29pm
Jaan, it was nice to have you drop by my blog. One more person who reads whatever gibberish I puke! :)
Twigrl, in my defence, I never made claims to being anything but rude, insensitive, and arrogant. My fellow blogger for some reason chose to pretend otherwise. I had to take it as my duty to set things right.
Fellow blogger, I know I broke your heart in my comment but can we move on?
31 Oct 2005, 6:56pm
I don't know. Your last comment made me a bit apprehensive. It's a little scary to know that I have a deep impact on someone and it tends to make me terribly conscious of what I'm saying and how I'm saying it. To know what I say has such an impact on you, it makes me hesitant.
But let me go on in the interest of the greater good. To continue my psychological profile of you, all this rudeness and arrogance is just a cover. You're still a 'gentleman' underneath it all.
And now, coming to the offence, I am offended. Deeply. First, your allegations were harsh. Using words like 'goodie-goodie' and 'no action worth the mention'... how could you?
Second, and harsher, was the thought that I did it on messenger only so that it would not only "demean her in the eyes of the blog reading junta it would demean her in her own eyes." That hurt. After the year and a half, I thought that we had come to understand each other a little better. But no. You still think I wouldn't call you a gentleman in public. Well, let me set that right.
You're a gentleman.
31 Oct 2005, 7:02pm
Ms. twigrl, thank you for caring and also for the effort, but you see, we cannot solve our misunderstandings on the internet so what makes you think that we will solve them when we meet. I don't think I want to give random strangers a scene where Mr. Writer and I are pulling each other's hair out. The cup of coffee sounds dangerous too. So thank you, but I do not think meeting is such a great idea.
31 Oct 2005, 8:35pm
Happy Diwali, love!
May the season bring you more joy and success for this year.
P.S. Pass it on to Papita too!
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31 Oct 2005, 10:09pm
Hmmmmm, war of words.
Twigrl: I second your advice of a cuppa...
Ms Fellow blogger: What makes you feel that the best practice to solve you misunderstanding is Internet? Words to the best of my little knowledge can express the least. Words can be misunderstood and misinterpreted. Give it a second thought.
Mr Writer: I think you were a bit apprehensive, but aakhir ladki hai bhai….zara naazook se sambhalna…
Hope I were not apprehensive to none
Chill out folks
1 Nov 2005, 12:10am
Fellow Blogger, I fail to understand why you should still think of me as a gentleman. But I am going to put to practice one of the two lessons that I learnt very early in my life. The first one is not important. The second one is. It states: Thou shalt not argue with a woman. But I still love you as much, may be even more.
Twigrl, this is how Fellow Blogger and I do our courtship. Different strokes for different folks. Thanks for caring, though.
Jaan, Happy Diwali to you too! Normally I would have turned 100 shades of crimson if someone had used my blog as a greeting card service but for you I make exceptions anyway :).
SeH, would you please care to explain what you meant by the second last sentence in your comment?
1 Nov 2005, 12:31am
Maybe even more than what? More than I (supposedly) do? :D
1 Nov 2005, 12:32am
Oh no! More than I originally thought I did. :)
1 Nov 2005, 12:33am
Ah well! Was worth a try.
So this is courtship?
1 Nov 2005, 12:41am
Dunno. But this is the only way I can describe whatever this is. It is twisted and weird, but we have to take it for whatever it is.
1 Nov 2005, 12:42am
Gosh! you guys scared me to death! Glad its over and everything is cool! Have a good one both of you.
Make Smart choices! I know you guys do but still....BE GOOD!
1 Nov 2005, 12:45am
Gosh! you guys scared me to death! Glad its over and everything is cool! Have a good one both of you.
Make Smart choices! I know you guys do but still....BE GOOD!
1 Nov 2005, 12:50am
Gosh! you guys scared me to death! Glad its over and everything is cool! Have a good one both of you.
Make Smart choices! I know you guys do but still....BE GOOD!
1 Nov 2005, 12:57am
Was not our intention to scare you, especially not anymore since my fellow blogger has grown really fond of you. But I do need to ask you what you meant when you said that we guys should have a good one? What is the 'one'?
1 Nov 2005, 1:14am
A good day, a good night, a good relationship-could be in any form. Anything that is lovely!
P.S. why the hell my comments are posted three time? ha well! whatever.
1 Nov 2005, 1:33am
Thank you twigrl. :) Let me take this opportunity to wish you a happy Diwali. I'm aware that this may make Mr. Writer turn 100 shades of crimson (isn't crimson just one shade?) since I'm not sure whether I am also an exception or not. But then, as he said, I've grown pretty fond of you, so the risk shall be taken. :)
PS: Maybe because you refresh the page after you comment.
1 Nov 2005, 3:10am
Now tat I read that its all over and everything is cool...do I still need to explain what I meant?.....I thot u understood 'Hindi'
1 Nov 2005, 3:55am
Thanks! same to you. Yes that must be refreshing the page. Will keep in mind.
1 Nov 2005, 3:55am
Thanks! same to you. Yes that must be refreshing the page. Will keep in mind.
1 Nov 2005, 3:56am
gosh! i am so in a habbit to so that. OH well! will keep that in mind this time.
1 Nov 2005, 10:50am
What do you mean, using your blog as a greeting service? Bhai, aap to online milte hi nahi! And what do you make exceptions for me? By default, I am exempt from all guidelines and rules, dontcha know? Aur what's all this pyar vyar? Fellow Blogger, don't know who you are, par I am vouching for Script Writer, acha khanda sona hai! *or however you speak it in native punju*
P.S. This is NOT Papita is it? Or is she? Hmmm...verrry interesting!
1 Nov 2005, 11:14am
Okay, I don't believe this has ever happenned on my blog before - a slew of comments. For that I need to thank all my blog-reading junta.
Twigrl, I echo fellow blogger's sentiments, sans the greeting though.
Fellow blogger, I don't have to make exceptions for you. You define the rules as far as I am concerned.
SeH, your second last line was not in Hindi.
Jaan, thank you for vouching for me. I can't think of many people who would do that. And no, she is not Papita. What makes you think I would even dare expose Papita to the outside world?
1 Nov 2005, 12:26pm
This is a good time as any.
1 Nov 2005, 6:34pm
I think the early morning decision of revising my opinion was well taken.
Jaan, I'd know what you meant by 'acha khanda sona hai' better if I knew what 'khanda' is.
Who's Papita?!
1 Nov 2005, 7:10pm
Jaan, did you have to mention Papita and cause a rift between fellow blogger and I? As if what we have been through is not enough! Tch tch...
Fellow blogger, of course. Every decision of yours is taken well.