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Alternatively : A Piece of Meat!
I am sure you are wondering about that word DOM. Well it
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Current Music: Sheer Lewdness - Merry & Pippin
Current Mood: Angry
Current Music: Sheer Lewdness - Merry & Pippin
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{ pager24 Aug 2004, 6:19am
Isnt there a limit to your growth as a blogger? Your posts are increasing exponentially, both quality/quantity wise. Damn, You are my Heroine. :)
24 Aug 2004, 11:22am
Thanks and very well written.
24 Aug 2004, 11:26am
Oh wow, lovely post and you are my heroine too :P and also my MG.
Lechers
24 Aug 2004, 11:48am
Nice one MG. LOL @ octopus n pick-up lines. It's really very sick to be in a party where you're going just to enjoy yourself and find guys flocking around you just to touch you. The dance routine, or coming too close while at the buffet, leaning over you to reach for something, or the drunken act... all of these are just too common nowadays. Sexual harrassment at work is on the rise. I seriuosly wish that legal action against these people was as common as in the west, so that men would think twice about trying anything like this out.
Great post, as always. :)
24 Aug 2004, 11:59am
I am dumb stuck. Dont know what to think of or say. But if you ve had this experience, you must be one of those hotties.
But one thing that caught my fancy is how u described the personality of a woman percieved protruding thru her tight tops and he well formed legs below her skirt. but what is this to depict? what is this to show offf? is this not to say that u have nice boobs or well formed legs that u flaunt them? whats wrong if they catch some one s attention and they make a pass at them. why would they be stalkers if cant get the eyes them?well... are nt they fluanted to be seen? if that stands a problem, why are nt they hid under a veil or long skirts?
aand one more thing is about the dirty talk or the pick up lines. someone once said that if a man randy, it i dirty and haarrassment, but when a woman does the same... it is 5$ a min. then why this discrimnation. whats wrong in expressing what u think? I dont think its very immoral in the given situation.
24 Aug 2004, 12:00pm
I am dumb stuck. Dont know what to think of or say. But if you ve had this experience, you must be one of those hotties.
But one thing that caught my fancy is how u described the personality of a woman percieved protruding thru her tight tops and he well formed legs below her skirt. but what is this to depict? what is this to show offf? is this not to say that u have nice boobs or well formed legs that u flaunt them? whats wrong if they catch some one s attention and they make a pass at them. why would they be stalkers if cant get the eyes them?well... are nt they fluanted to be seen? if that stands a problem, why are nt they hid under a veil or long skirts?
aand one more thing is about the dirty talk or the pick up lines. someone once said that if a man randy, it i dirty and haarrassment, but when a woman does the same... it is 5$ a min. then why this discrimnation. whats wrong in expressing what u think? I dont think its very immoral in the given situation.
24 Aug 2004, 12:13pm
Johnny: blushes, thanks
Anoop: you are welcome
T: well it wasn't really an order for post, it sort of came up in a conversation, but if you have a request go ahead, it would be my pleasure to try :D
Aran: if I had started on the dance and buffet it would have been like 3 posts in one and I am already in the too-lengthy-posts-category. And thanks :D
Jai: Dressing up nicely doesn't mean flaunting what you have, and expressing what you think is not bad, it just has to be in a decent acceptable way and not reduce the girl to just a piece of meat. It's the tone that makes the music Jai
24 Aug 2004, 12:23pm
Well to begin with, a woman could have dressed to please his man, or vice versa. You want to make a pass, make it atleast a decent one and if the girl says/hints no, dont be all over her. The girl might not have dressed for you to stare/grope her assets. Whats with this stupid attitude of dress like a pujarin if you want groping hands out of your way?
Second are you saying that a woman properly dressed, I am bad with what their dresses are called, are not made a pass at? Its all too common, if you choose to open your eyes and watch. Anyway, as they say, you see what you want to see.
24 Aug 2004, 12:29pm
her man* geez.
24 Aug 2004, 12:38pm
Let no one deny the inherent lech that lives in every guy (and for the sake of the female sex, every girl) for how boring would our lives be without our ids.
I cannot imagine a mindnumbingly hot woman walking into the room and me thinking,"What am extremely attractive woman. I dare say, it would be a pleasure to make her acquaintance."
It might not show on my face but I am probably thinking,"OMG, Welcome to my parlour, baby." And the rest of the stuff I'd have said on my blog and would be a direct effect of diminishing blood supply to the brain.
Also, let no one deny the bonding potential in a good lech. At least for guys. There should, I agree, be a statute for limitation as to how much of the conversation that the woman in question can hear.
Here is a bit of information for all women who want to waste their breath in future. NO GROUP OF GUYS WILL EVER, IN THE ENTIRE TIME THE UNIVERSE EXISTS, LET A PASSING HOT WOMAN GO UNNOTICED. Sit back and accept the natural course of events. Heck, you might even enjoy the attention if you let go of the righteous indignation.
Guys, LECH all you like. Its your privilege. But, also, get some boundaries. With great power comes great responsibility.
cheers
aloque
24 Aug 2004, 12:47pm
then why is that women keep complaining about smaall boobs if its not to pull attention (be it anyone s attention) and i wonder why wonder bra sells so much.
reminds me of one those songs from an hidhi movie... it goes.... "sringaar adhoora rahta hai, jab tak na pade ashiq ki nazar."
its a fact that mosst of us dress for other to look at us/ to feel confident. (confident that you are getting the attention)
anyway, i think its very differnet looking at this issue from a bloke s and a lass 's point of view. And the other important thing is that one carries their intentions in the clothes wear, if u were to be with ur partner, i dont think people would make the same passes at u. wen someone is single and hot and dressed to kill, different people would have different approcahes towards her. i think it varies from culture to circumstances.
24 Aug 2004, 12:48pm
then why is that women keep complaining about smaall boobs if its not to pull attention (be it anyone s attention) and i wonder why wonder bra sells so much.
reminds me of one those songs from an hidhi movie... it goes.... "sringaar adhoora rahta hai, jab tak na pade ashiq ki nazar."
its a fact that mosst of us dress for other to look at us/ to feel confident. (confident that you are getting the attention)
anyway, i think its very differnet looking at this issue from a bloke s and a lass 's point of view. And the other important thing is that one carries their intentions in the clothes wear, if u were to be with ur partner, i dont think people would make the same passes at u. wen someone is single and hot and dressed to kill, different people would have different approcahes towards her. i think it varies from culture to circumstances.
24 Aug 2004, 1:32pm
Jai, there's a difference between making a pass at a woman and falling all over her. Touching her body and making her hate you. Is that enjoyable? That's damn twsited and perverted. But then, would you even understand?
Do you even know what 'ashiq' means?? It's singular. One person.
And you mean we're supposed to dress in a sack if we don't want unwanted attention? Is it too much to ask to be left alone? If we dress the way we like, we're asking for cheap advances? God! You need a new brain!!
24 Aug 2004, 1:36pm
Anoop: agreed, a woman may dress for her guy or even just for herself, but decency should be above all
aloque: lol as long as this "OMG, Welcome to my parlour, baby." remains in your head it's ok, I mean flirting is really ok, sort of like the salt, pepper & spice to a party, but what I object to is the insult. If a girl is treated like the interesting and maybe even pretty girl she is instead of a potential lay then all is good :D but if guys can lech all they want, should the girls also be allowed? for the sake of equality and all?
Jai: confidence is one thing and attention (specially that kind of puke inducing attention) is a totally different thing! If a girl signals YOU that she is NOT interested then dammit let her be. It can't be forced, or does a girl have to kick where it hurts to be left alone? Not everyone who is pretty and single and well dressed is out to land in someone's bed you know!
Aran: some people belong in a sack!! :P
24 Aug 2004, 4:04pm
I hope for your sake that girls lech as well. How boring would it be if you didn't?
I've seen/heard too many women bitch about a horribly dressed guy/girl. I've heard women judge other women and classify them as bitches/sluts/whores based on the way they dress. So, how is it different when its the other way round. We are still being disrespectful.
We disrespect people day in and day out, even if its only a person on tv, our annoying neighbour or the teacher in the classroom. Disrespect until otherwise proven is sadly the dictum in our world.
The fact that the person hears you being disrespectful or doesn't shouldn't make a difference, if we are speaking ideally, and then we would all be in the same hypocritical ship.
So, self respect is the only respect we really have and from that point of view, I can see how the kind of behaviour you have described is downright offensive.
Damn, someone tell me something funny soon.
aloque
24 Aug 2004, 4:16pm
The debate is nice but getting a bit serious and personal. So, lets chuck it guys.
Aloque - your blog is one of the best blogs and I was so glad when you linked mine to yours. Never got the chance to say thanks and its perhaps too late now, but then, not late than never. :P
Hehehe - dressing up in a sack. Where to keep the hands? And walk in small steps? :D
Lily - remember that shopkeeper in Sharjah? Who admired your feet and got those special anklets for you? You are so sweet and attractive, people cant help being attracted by your charm (and I am serious).
Beauty is always worshipped and for those cheapos (who should pay Rs.1000 at Golconda) are frustrated and thus twist the beauty and become lechers. :D
I am crazy today. Dont mind me.
24 Aug 2004, 7:43pm
hope im not too late to comment:
its Natural for guys to be attracted to girls, and to look at them (unless they're gay). among the admirers, there are some who harbour desire in their eyes but just watch from a distance... and there are some who fall into the DOM category. i agree, the latter are the scum of the earth.
Leering is cheap and Touching the opposite sex (without permission!).. uh.. thats a very subhuman thing to do.
PS: Jai, if a female is "dressed" in a two piece bikini, it doesnt mean "come and get me"! :P
24 Aug 2004, 7:49pm
btw, when did u walk across the desert sands of Sharjah? did u shop at the gold souk? cuz thats where u'd find such enthu shopkeepers!
24 Aug 2004, 7:51pm
aloque: I don't think girls really "lech", they probably fantasise about that cool dude or handsome hunk, but to go and touch him or even produce some pick up line, nah, don't think so. If a girl 'bitches' about the outfit of another girl, it may be disrespectful, but if a guy does it then it is "oh earth open up and swallow me time". But yes, it is bloody annoying to have such mis-behaviour inflicted on you and manners are definitely a plus point! (at least for me they are)
T: the sack I was referring to was one filled with huge rocks next to the person and preferably at the bottom of some river somewhere :P
rainmaker: always a pleasure, and better late than never :D and yes, if a girl wants someone to "come and get her" I am sure there will be no mixed signals, but even a bikini isn't a neon sign with that kind of invitation written on it!
24 Aug 2004, 7:52pm
yes rainmaker, I went to that suq lol, and that's where my ankles rose to fame :) it was in december
